It sounds like the anchor is not the problem but what it sits on and maybe your tackle.
I don't have a remote or cockpit controls...... so my wife and I handle the anchoring duties. So I am use to be up on the pulpit taking care of business with the anchor.
How do you clean your anchor when pulling up? I know myself after on the hook.......the Illinois river mud doesn't what to let go, so I go through the dunk mode a couple times to clean our #14 Hooker anchor before I bring it all the way up on our 2001 3000 SCR lewmar windless.
On my shakle( where chain meets anchor) I need to buy one with a swivel so that the anchor will right itself when coming up in the stow position. Maybe that will help you?
I have had several friends get rid of their delta and go back to a dansforth or similar because of the delta letting go, especially when the wind starts to do a 180 on you and your boat turns on you.
Yes I know the delta is a much prettier looking anchor but IMHO.... if you just figure out your tackle problem, I think the fluke style well work for you, plus your save some money. Delta's aren't cheap!!
Well this is my 2cents worth.....hope it helps and good luck.
Roger
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